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		<title>The Care Available</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Oct 2009 13:42:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[You can ask your doctor, your midwife, or the leader of your prenatal class what she knows about the hospitals in your area, But the only way to really find out what a hospital can provide and whether it&#8217;s right for you is to go and take a good look around and ask questions. There [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You can ask your doctor, your midwife, or the leader of your prenatal class what she knows about  the hospitals in your area, But the only way to really find out what a hospital  can provide and whether it&#8217;s right for you is to go and take a good look around  and ask questions. There may, of course, be only one hospital in your area, but  if you do have a choice, make sure you get satisfactory answers so that you can  feel happy and confident about the hospital you choose.</p>
<p><strong> TYPES OF HOSPITALS</strong></p>
<p>There are different kinds of hospitals, most of which  provide maternity care. Without question, teaching hospitals provide the most  modern facilities. Here, doctors are always on duty, so if you run into any  complications, there will be someone to attend you. And, as a rule, doctors at  teaching hospitals are usually more experienced in dealing with complicated  births. The smaller community hospitals are rare now, but they do tend to be  more friendly and flexible, although midwives still have to follow the same  guidelines as midwives in larger hospitals.</p>
<p class="style1">VISITING HOSPITALS</p>
<p>If you can, tour one or more hospitals with your  partner before making your final choice. Most maternity hospitals give a formal  tour, sometimes as part of general prenatal preparation classes, otherwise as  part of the general welcome made to mothers signing up. Find out about when  these tours take place and ask if you can join one before you make your  decision.</p>
<p><strong> GETTING TO KNOW YOUR  HOSPITAL</strong></p>
<p>Hospitals can be intimidating, but usually seem less  so when you get to know them. Try to visit the hospital of your choice at least  once, more if possible, so that you can meet some of the staff who&#8217;ll be caring  for you. You&#8217;ll also have a chance to get the feel of the routine and look at  the delivery room and other facilities. The more time you have to walk around,  the more familiar you&#8217;ll become with the surroundings so you&#8217;re more relaxed  when the big day comes. It&#8217;s best if you and your partner do this together so  that you both get to know the place and the people and will feel confident when  you are actually there for the birth itself. Remember, though, that security  considerations mean that maternity wards are now carefully monitored, so don&#8217;t  try to visit without an appointment. Any unannounced visitors are likely to be  challenged.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s a good idea for  you and your partner to take a look around the outside of the hospital and find  the emergency entrance. Many women go into labor at night, and having to search  for the entrance in the dark is the last thing you need.</p>
<p><strong>CHANGING YOUR HOSPITAL</strong></p>
<p>If you do have  problems and you find that your hospital is not  meeting your  expectations, you don&#8217;t have to abandon the system altogether. A hospital  is there to serve you; healthcare is a consumer issue and you  do have the right to refuse certain procedures. If you&#8217;re  very unhappy with any aspect of the care at your hospital, you can  arrange to be transferred to another one. You  could also try getting in touch with the head of the clinic or your  obstetrician and explain your feelings and what you think is wrong  with the clinic. If you find a sympathetic doctor who you<br />
get  along with, you may change &#8216;your mind about leaving, although  it&#8217;s unlikely that he or she will be there for your delivery. If  you do feel you must change hospitals, your obstetrician will probably  recommend another doctor at a center of your choice.</p>
<p><strong>BIRTHING  ROOMS</strong></p>
<p>Most hospitals should  have birthing rooms available. These are non-clinical and more like your own  home, with comfortable chairs, low lighting, soft music, piles of cushions, and  drinks and snacks on hand.</p>
<p>The  whole aim of a birthing room is to help you relax, overcome fears, and relieve  tension. A normal routine before the birth makes for a normal delivery, and once you&#8217;re  in a birthing room you  won&#8217;t be moved unless there&#8217;s an emergency that needs immediate attention.  There shouldn&#8217;t be any sudden changes in movement, mood, and surroundings. You  won&#8217;t have to lie down to have your baby, and you don&#8217;t need to be surrounded  by intimidating equipment. In a birthing room, you can take up whatever  position you want for the birth of your baby.</p>
<p>For  many women, a birthing room provides the ideal compromise between home and  hospital births. It provides surroundings and facilities as similar as possible  to those at home, but with emergency expertise on hand and an epidural  available if labor pains become overwhelming.</p>
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		<title>The Third Stage</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2009 13:00:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Once your baby&#8217;s been born, your uterus rests for about 15 minutes. But soon it starts to contract again to deliver the placenta. This is the third stage of labor, and it is comparatively painless-you&#8217;ll be so absorbed in your baby that you&#8217;ll probably hardly notice it. The Third Stage During the third stage of [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Once your baby&#8217;s been born, your uterus rests for  about 15 minutes. But soon it starts to contract again to deliver the placenta.  This is the third stage of labor, and it is comparatively painless-you&#8217;ll be so absorbed in your baby  that you&#8217;ll probably hardly notice it.</p>
<p><strong> The Third Stage</strong></p>
<p>During the third stage of labor, the placenta becomes  detached from the wall of your uterus and is delivered down the birth canal.  The large blood vessels running to and from the placenta, which are about the  thickness of a pencil, are simply torn across. Despite this, bleeding is rare  because the muscle fibers of the uterus are arranged in a crisscross fashion so  that when the uterus contracts down, the muscles tighten around the blood  vessels and prevent them from bleeding. This is why it&#8217;s absolutely essential  that your uterus contracts down into a hard ball once the placenta has been  expelled. Massaging every now and then for an hour or so after the third stage  is complete can help keep your uterus tightly contracted. Normally the third  stage lasts about 10-20 minutes.</p>
<p><strong>Delivering The  Placenta</strong></p>
<p>Usually your doctor or midwife won&#8217;t try to deliver  the placenta until there are clear signs that it&#8217;s separating from the wall of  your uterus and moving downward into your vagina. The signs your attendants  will look for are contractions starting up again a few minutes after the birth  of your baby, which shows that the placenta is about to separate, and your  desire to bear down-this also shows that the placenta has separated from the wall  of your uterus and is pressing down on your pelvic floor.</p>
<p>Once these signs have  appeared, your doctor or midwife may encourage the delivery of the placenta by  pulling gently on the cord, at the same time pressing above the rim of the  pelvis to control descent. You may be asked to push. The placenta is expelled  from your vagina, followed by the membranes. Rarely, a blood clot will also be  expelled.</p>
<p><strong>How you can help</strong> It  may take up to half an hour before the placenta arrives. You can help speed  things up by breastfeeding your baby because the sucking action stimulates your  uterus to contract, thereby  helping to expel the placenta. If your baby isn&#8217;t ready to suck,  stimulating your nipples with your fingers can have the same effect.</p>
<p><strong>Delivery</strong> The placenta may pass through your vulva in  two different ways. In the first, the center of the placenta comes out first,  dragging the membranes behind it. In the second, an edge of the placenta  presents first, then it slips out of the vulva sideways. Most women want to see the placenta-it&#8217;s an  amazing organ that&#8217;s been the life-support system for your baby for nine months.</p>
<p><strong> After delivery </strong>Once the placenta is delivered, medical  staff will check it carefully to make sure it&#8217;s complete and none of it has  been left behind. If any of the placenta has been left in the uterus it can  cause hemorrhaging later on, so it must be removed as soon as possible. If  there&#8217;s any doubt, you may have an ultrasound scan to see whether the uterus is  completely empty. The membranes should form a complete bag except for the hole  through which your baby has passed. Your midwife will also check the  cut end of the cord to make sure that the umbilical blood vessels  are normal. After the placenta is delivered, the whole of your vulval outlet  will be examined carefully for tears. Anything other than a minute one will be  stitched immediately.</p>
<p><strong>After The Placenta Is  Delivered</strong></p>
<p>After the uterus is completely empty and the placenta  is delivered, Pitocin is usually given by intravenous infusion. The Pitocin helps the uterus contract and reduce the amount of bleeding. Blood runs  through sinuses in the uterus, and when the uterus contracts down to a small  ball, these sinuses are closed off. If the uterus does not contract well, you  will continue to bleed. At At this point your doctor will start an IV (if you  don&#8217;t have one already) and give you Methergine to control postpartum  hemorrhage and help the uterus tone up. If you have high blood pressure, your  doctor can give you a prostaglandin, which will have the same effect as Methergine to stop postpartum bleeding.</p>
<p><strong>Oxytocin</strong> The hormone oxytocin is naturally produced by  your body when you see and touch your baby and put her to your breast. This  natural production of oxytocin helps control excessive bleeding and tone the  uterus. At the same time, both you and your newborn benefit from close,  skin-to-skin contact.</p>
<p><strong>How You Will Feel</strong></p>
<p>You may find yourself shivering and shaking after the  placenta is delivered. After delivery of my second child, I was  shivering and  my teeth were chattering so much that I couldn&#8217;t speak  or breathe properly. My own explanation for this is that  for nine      months I had a little furnace inside me, producing  quite a lot of  heat, and my body had adjusted to take account of the  extra heat       by turning my own thermostat down slightly. When my  baby left my body, I was deprived of that heat and my body  temperature     probably dropped a few degrees. The only way the body can raise. Its temperature is to generate heat through muscular  work. That&#8217;s  exactly What shivering does-rapid contraction and  relaxation of        muscles produces body heat. The shivering usually  stops in about half an hour, during which time your body temperature  is back      up to normal and your own thermostat is reset.</p>
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		<title>Making love</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Keep on making love as late into pregnancy as you wish, as long as there are no medical reasons for abstaining. Your baby is safe in your uterus. He&#8217;s not harmed by normal sexual activity, and probably enjoys sex as much as you do as your hormones reach him via the placenta. In the early [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Keep on making love as late into pregnancy as you  wish, as long as there are no medical reasons for abstaining. Your  baby is safe in your uterus. He&#8217;s not harmed by normal sexual activity, and probably enjoys sex as much as you do as your hormones reach  him via the placenta.</p>
<p>In the early months,  use any lovemaking position you like, but as your abdomen gets bigger, you may  find some positions uncomfortable. After about 24 weeks, it&#8217;s best to avoid  lying on your back for any length of time, so don&#8217;t use the missionary  position, with your partner on top-there are lots of other exciting options.  These may also be the best choices when you first start making love again after  the birth.</p>
<p><strong>WOMAN-ON-TOP POSITIONS</strong></p>
<p>You may find these the most comfortable from the  second trimester onward. As your abdomen grows, you can lift yourself farther  off his stomach by supporting yourself on your bent legs. This also prevents  too much pressure on your abdomen and breasts. In these positions, too, it&#8217;s  easier for you to control the depth of penetration and the speed and rhythm of  lovemaking.</p>
<p>These positions allow  a great deal of intimacy. You and your partner have your hands free to caress  and stroke each other and he can easily reach your breasts with his mouth.  Alternatively, you can brush his chest with your breasts to stimulate him  further.</p>
<p><strong>KNEELING AND SIDE-BY-SIDE POSITIONS</strong></p>
<p>Many of these  involve entering from behind, and are useful in pregnancy, particularly if you  don&#8217;t feel comfortable on your back, or you don&#8217;t want to take too active a  part in lovemaking.</p>
<p>Kneeling positions  allow your partner freedom of movement and let him vary the amount of  penetration. Side-by-side positions are comfortable and permit plenty of  kissing and caressing. The &#8220;spoons&#8221; position, so called because the  partners nestle together like a pair of spoons, is also good to try if you feel  any soreness or discomfort when you start making love again after you&#8217;ve given  birth, especially if you&#8217;ve had an episiotomy.</p>
<p><strong>SITTING POSITIONS</strong></p>
<p>These are good in the middle and late months. They  don&#8217;t allow a lot of movement but are comfortable for both partners and ease  pressure on the abdomen. Also, the depth of penetration can be controlled. Your  partner sits on a sturdy, comfortable chair or the edge of the bed and you sit  on his lap, either facing him (if your abdomen is not too big), facing to one  side, or facing away.</p>
<p>Your partner can use  his hands to caress your body and breasts and to stimulate your clitoris. His  range of movement is limited, so you control the sexual tempo.</p>
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		<title>The Second Stage: Delivery</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Delivery is the main event: it&#8217;s what you&#8217;ve been getting ready for over the last nine months. Your expectations are realistic­a manageable labor, not necessarily painless but happy and relaxed, with your chosen birth partner and staff you know around you in familiar surroundings. One of the key factors in your feeling happy and relaxed [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Delivery is the main event: it&#8217;s what  you&#8217;ve been getting ready for over the last nine months. Your expectations are  realistic­a manageable labor, not necessarily painless but happy and relaxed,  with your chosen birth partner and staff you know around you in familiar  surroundings. One of the key factors in your feeling happy and relaxed is that  everyone around you is a familiar friend.</p>
<p><strong>CONTRACTIONS AND  PUSHING</strong></p>
<p>The second stage is the expulsion stage-you push your  baby out. It lasts from the time your cervix is fully dilated until your baby  is born and, for a first baby, generally takes less than two hours. The average  second stage lasts about one hour, and it may be as little as 15-20 minutes for  subsequent babies. At this time contractions are 60-90 seconds long and come at  two- to four­ minute intervals.</p>
<p>You&#8217;ll almost  certainly feel the urge to push, known as bearing down. The urge is caused by  your baby&#8217;s head pressing down on your pelvic floor and rectum, and is quite  involuntary. Keep your pushing as smooth and continuous as you can; make the  muscular effort smooth and slow so that your vaginal and perineal tissues and  muscles have enough time to stretch and will be able to accommodate your baby&#8217;s  head.</p>
<p>The most efficient  position to be in when you&#8217;re pushing is upright, whether you  sit on a birthing stool, stand with your arms around your partner&#8217;s  neck, or squat. This means that the downward muscular force of your body and  the downward force of gravity are working together to push your baby out.</p>
<p>If  you&#8217;re lying on your back, even if you&#8217;re supported by pillows, you&#8217;re  pushing your baby out uphill against the force of gravity.</p>
<p>This  is much harder work, and so delivery is slower.</p>
<p>As  you push, it helps if your pelvic floor and anal area are fully relaxed, so  make a conscious effort to let go of this part of your body. Don&#8217;t be embarrassed  if you urinate or lose a little stool­lots of women do and your attendants have  seen it all before. When you&#8217;ve finished a push, take two slow, deep breaths,  but don&#8217;t relax too quickly at the end of a contraction. Your baby will  continue to maintain her forward progress if you relax slowly. If doctors think  that your second stage is going on too long, they might suggest using forceps  to assist the delivery of your baby.</p>
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		<title>The First Stage</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[The months of preparing for your baby’s birth have now reached their climax as labor begins. In medical terms, the first stage starts when your contractions bring about the opening (dilation) and thinning (effacement) of the cervix and ends when these are complete. At this point your midwife will confirm that you are fully dilated. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The months of preparing for your baby’s birth have now reached their climax as labor begins. In medical terms, the first stage starts when your contractions bring about the opening (dilation) and thinning (effacement) of the cervix and ends when these are complete. At this point your midwife will confirm that you are fully dilated.</p>
<p><strong>WHAT HAPPENS IN LABOR</strong></p>
<p>It’s difficult to be sure about the onset of labor because it differs from woman to woman. Certain classic signs-intense contractions, dilation and thinning of the cervix, and rupturing of the membranes-are taken to mean that labor is underway.</p>
<p>Contractions When true labor starts, the nature of your contractions changes. They become more rhythmic and more painful, and they come at regular intervals. These contractions are not within your control and, once they have begun, won’t stop until your baby is born.</p>
<p>You can time your contractions from the start of one contraction to the start of the next. In early labor, contractions are usually about 30-60 seconds long and come at intervals of about five to 20 minutes. This can vary; some women may not notice their first contractions until they are closer together-say, every five minutes. During the active phase, contractions usually last 60-90 seconds, at intervals of two to four minutes.</p>
<p>As your uterine muscles tighten, you may feel something like menstrual cramps, spreading around your lower abdomen like a tight band. This is because the uterine muscle runs short of oxygen as its blood vessels are compressed. The uterus is a huge muscle and needs a lot of energy during contractions.</p>
<p>Every woman feels contraction pains differently, but in early labor they may be similar to menstrual cramps or a mild backache. Some women experience a persistent and severe backache. Very often a contraction feels like a wave of discomfort all the way across your abdomen that reaches a peak for a few seconds and then diminishes. At the same time, you can feel a hardening and tightening of the uterine muscle, which is held at the peak of its intensity for a few seconds before the muscle begins to relax.</p>
<p>Women assume that contractions will get steadily longer, more frequent, and stronger. This is not so; don’t be disturbed if your contractions seem to vary. It’s as normal for a strong contraction to be followed by a weaker one that doesn’t last quite as long, as it is for contractions to follow one another relentlessly.</p>
<p>Your cervix dilates and thins The cervix is usually a thick-walled canal about three-fourths of an inch (two entimeters) long, and firmly closed. In the last few weeks, pregnancy hormones may soften your cervix, but the intense contractions of first-stage labor are needed to dilate and thin it. Dilation is measured in centimeters from 0-10 (up to four inches). Your cervix will only dilate about four centimeters (or one-and-a-half inches) during the latent phase, then progress to 10 centimeters (four inches) in the active phase. The pain increases as it becomes fully dilated during transition. Eventually, the whole cervix opens up and is made one with the body of the uterus, creating a continuous channel that your baby can pass through.</p>
<p>Your water breaks The membranes of the amniotic sac may rupture painlessly at any time during labor, although this usually happens toward the end of the first stage. Fluid may leak or gush out; the flow depends on the size and site of the break and whether or not the baby’s head is plugging the hole.</p>
<p>Usually, if the membranes rupture spontaneously near term, labor follows within a short time, although occasionally it’s delayed-if your baby’s presenting part is not engaged, or if your baby is presenting abnormally. Delay also occurs in normal cases. When this happens, you’ll be advised to have labor induced.</p>
<p><strong>HOW LONG DOES LABOR LAST?</strong></p>
<p>Labor times vary greatly, but an average labor lasts about 12-14 hours for first-time mothers, and about seven hours for subsequent labors. If your labor lasts longer than 12 hours the first time, or nine hours in subsequent labors, your doctor<br />
will want to find out why progress is slow, and may intervene.</p>
<p>The first stage of labor can be further divided into three separate phases. The latent phase is the longest, lasting about eight hours for first babies, and you’ll feel contractions coming with increasing frequency and length, but they won’t be too distressing. Try to conserve your energy during this time as your body will be warming up for the more demanding phases to follow. The next, active phase, will be shorter, lasting about three to five hours, but this is when your contractions become more painful, and you may want some pain relief. The final, transitional phase, is the shortest and most intense of all, usually lasting just under an hour, and comes right before the delivery.</p>
<p><strong>Transition</strong></p>
<p>This is the most intense phase of the first stage. Your Contractions will now last about 60-90 seconds, with intervals of only 30-90 seconds. As the contractions become more forceful, you may find it hard to relax and this is the time you may feel the most discomfort. You may also feel a very strong urge to push, but should not do so unless you’re fully dilated. The intense pain may make you feel extremely irritable, even bad-tempered with your birth partner. This is natural. Don’t think you’re failing if you fear you lack the energy to go on any more; you’ll find hidden resources of energy to help you cope. Remind yourself that this phase means your baby’s birth is now just minutes away.</p>
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		<title>Partner’s Role in Labor</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[The more secure and relaxed a mother feels during labor; the better she’ll be able to cope with pain. Her partner is the natural person to give this loving support, since he’ll have been closely involved in the pregnancy, and eager to share his child’s birth. Otherwise, ask a friend who’s had children herself to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The more secure and relaxed a mother feels during labor; the better she’ll be able to cope with pain. Her partner is the natural person to give this loving support, since he’ll have been closely involved in the pregnancy, and eager to share his child’s birth. Otherwise, ask a friend who’s had children herself to be your birth coach. Most hospitals welcome fathers, friends, or relatives to support the mother.</p>
<p><strong>UNDERSTANDING YOUR ROLE</strong></p>
<p>It’s normal to feel nervous about being a birth partner, so the best thing to do is prepare yourself. Find out as much as you can so you’re able to help the mother meet the physical and emotional demands of labor. At prenatal classes there’ll be demonstrations to describe labor’s onset and the effect of contractions, and you’ll be taught techniques to help her relax.</p>
<p>Visit the birthing center or the hospital’s labor and delivery rooms and introduce yourself to the staff. Make sure you know the route to the hospital in case of an emergency, and find out all you’ll need to do; trust will create a calmer atmosphere.</p>
<p><strong>HOW TO HELP DURING LABOR</strong></p>
<p>You may have a very active role throughout the labor and birth, but sometimes your presence is all the mother needs. Make sure you’re very familiar with her birth plan and the alternative version and that you know all her wishes.</p>
<p>Use your intuition Judge the situation by observing your partner’s moods. She may want to stay quiet, going through contractions alone without being touched. Or she may needs lots of encouragement or distractions.</p>
<p>Provide emotional support Remain as close and intimate as you can, using loving words, and keep your movements slow, quiet, and steady. Be positive: praise her and don’t criticize. If she wants to hear your voice, constantly tell her how well she’s doing (how far dilated) and how she can relax herself. Tell her what the midwife is doing and what will soon happen. Also, help her to see how much she’s achieved already-it’s easy for her to be overwhelmed by how far she thinks she has to go. Massage and stroke her slowly, but if she just wants to hold your hand, you can encourage her by the expression on your face and lots of eye contact. Sometimes just the look of love in her partner’s eyes can help a woman bear the pain of contractions.</p>
<p>Combat tiredness Before labor, encourage her to rest as much as possible, particularly if she seems to want to rush around cleaning during the nesting period. If her labor is long and tiring, try to help her relax between contractions and save her energy for the second stage. If she’s not feeling nauseous, provide her with any drinks or nourishment she wants.</p>
<p>Help her cope with pain It’s hard to see someone you care about in pain, but try not to show your anxiety-it could make her feel more worried. On the other hand, don’t dismiss her suffering. Acknowledge it positively, telling her each contraction is bringing your baby’s birth closer, and make different suggestions for relief. Help her not to be embarrassed about saying what hurts­encourage her to be as uninhibited as possible. A woman in labor should never be ashamed of needing pain relief.</p>
<p>If she feels particularly anxious during a contraction, it might calm her fears to talk about how she felt before the next one starts. Don’t take it personally if she’s critical or aggressive toward you-this often happens when the pain is very intense.</p>
<p>Help with breathing You’ll probably have practiced your partner’s preferred method in prenatal classes, but let her follow her own rhythm. If she seems to lose control, stay nearby and slowly guide her through the pattern until she’s able to continue on her own. Be ready to adapt-very few people follow exactly what they practiced at prenatal classes.</p>
<p>Make her comfortable You can be a great help here. Suggest different positions and support her with pillows or blankets, or let her lean against you while you cuddle, and rock together. Look for signs of tension in her neck, shoulders, or forehead, and gently stroke these areas. Massage may give some relief from pain. If she’s using visualization techniques, gently talk her through them. She’ll probably find having her face and hands wiped very soothing, or you can offer her ice cubes to suck. If she feels cold, help her put on socks or leg warmers. As labor progresses, she may want to talk less, but you can keep in touch by touching or caressing, or by using eye contact.</p>
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		<title>Cesarean Section</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Sep 2008 05:35:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[If a normal vaginal delivery could be dangerous or even impossible for you, your baby will be delivered by cesarean section. Small horizontal incisions are made in your abdomen and uterus, and your baby is delivered through them.The vertical cut is no longer used because there’s a risk it may tear again if you have [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If a normal vaginal delivery could be dangerous or even impossible for you, your baby will be delivered by cesarean section. Small horizontal incisions are made in your abdomen and uterus, and your baby is delivered through them.The vertical cut is no longer used because there’s a risk it may tear again if you have another child. The number of babies delivered by cesarean section has increased rapidly and is currently about one in four in the United States. One reason for this increase is that doctors are worried about being sued if a difficult birth causes complications that could have been avoided by a cesarean section. Another is that the operation is now so safe that it can be less risky than some other forms of delivery.</p>
<p>The need for a cesarean section may be apparent well before labor begins, so you, your partner, and your obstetrician have time to talk through what will happen-this is an elective cesarean. In emergencies, the need only becomes evident once labor is under way.</p>
<p><strong>Elective Cesarean Section</strong></p>
<p>The most common reasons for choosing to have a cesarean include failure to progress in labor or dystocia (abnormally slow progress of labor), your baby being in a breech position or lying across your pelvis; placenta previa; and certain medical conditions such as active herpes type II infection. A cesarean may also be necessary if you’ve had one for a previous baby-the worry used to be that the scar would open up again. Experience has shown that this does not happen with the horizontal or “bikini” cut, now generally used instead of the vertical cut, and so hospitals often allow a vaginal delivery to begin, and if there are no problems, labor goes on as normal- a “trial of labor.”</p>
<p>Elective cesareans are often carried out under a spinal anesthetic. This has several advantages over a general anesthetic: it’s safer for your baby; you have no postoperative nausea or vomiting; and because you are conscious, you can hold your baby as soon as he’s born. It’s usually possible for your partner to be with you during the operation, just as he can be at a vaginal delivery.</p>
<p>When you’ve had a cesarean, you may feel deeply disappointed that you didn’t have a vaginal delivery. It’s natural to feel this way, and the best thing you can do is talk to your partner about it. If he describes the birth to you in detail it may help you to visualize and accept it. Also, remember that the way your child comes into the world isn’t nearly as important as having a healthy baby.</p>
<p>It also helps, of course, to prepare yourself in advance for this type of birth. Go and see the obstetrician with your partner and find out what the operation involves, what procedures will be used, and whether your partner is allowed to be there. Ask if you can see a video so you’ll know what’s going to happen to you. If you can, talk to other women who’ve had cesarean sections. They’ll be able to give you useful advice and reassurance.</p>
<p><strong>Emergency Cesarean Section</strong></p>
<p>An emergency C-section may be needed when something goes wrong during labor, such as a prolapsed umbilical cord, placental hemorrhage, fetal distress, or serious failure to progress in labor. Emergency cesarean sections may be carried out under epidural and the hospital may not allow your partner to be present at the operation.</p>
<p><strong>After a Cesarean Section</strong></p>
<p>As is the case with any major surgery, it takes time to recover from a cesarean, but even so you’ll be encouraged to get up and walk around a few hours afterward to stimulate your circulation. You’ll be given painkillers if you need them, and the dressings will be removed after three or four days. Your internal stitches will be made with absorbable sutures, which will dissolve away naturally. Skin stitches may also be absorbable, but if staples are used they should be removed within about a week.</p>
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		<title>Hospital Birth</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Jul 2008 16:06:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Even though more and more women are choosing to deliver their babies in birthing centers, most babies are born in a hospital. The majority of women opt to give birth in a hospital, either because they are encouraged to do so by their medical advisers or because it’s their preference. Most hospitals are now paying [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Even though more and more women are choosing to deliver their babies in birthing centers, most babies are born in a hospital. The majority of women opt to give birth in a hospital, either because they are encouraged to do so by their medical advisers or because it’s their preference. Most hospitals are now paying much more attention to the mother’s wishes, so there’s no reason why you shouldn’t enjoy giving birth to your baby in a hospital setting.</p>
<p><strong>WHAT TO EXPECT</strong></p>
<p>The hospital surroundings will be unfamiliar, and this can make you feel anxious, but here are some tips to help you make yourself more comfortable. You’ll probably have been told to leave all valuables at home, but when you get to the hospital, you may be asked to remove any remaining personal items such as jewelry. If this worries you, ask if you can keep your personal belongings with you in a bag. If you wear contact lenses, ask about the hospital’s policy beforehand-they may prefer you to bring your glasses instead.</p>
<p>After admission, When you arrive at the hospital, you’ll need to go through brief hospital admission procedures. Your midwife or doctor will ask you about how your labor is going-how often you’re having contractions and whether your water has broken, for example. Then she will examine your abdomen to confirm the situation, feel your baby’s position, and check your baby’s heart. Your blood pressure and temperature will be taken, and you’ll be given an internal examination to see how far your cervix has dilated. They will probably ask you to wear a fetal monitor for about 20 minutes, but afterward you should be able to move around as much as you wish.</p>
<p><strong>Giving birth</strong></p>
<p>If you’ve decided that you prefer to manage without drugs for as long as you can during labor, the midwives will usually be more than happy to help you cope using other methods of pain relief. Bear in mind, though, that drug relief is available if you want it, and you can ask to start with smaller doses if you don’t feel you need the full measure.</p>
<p>Once your baby is descending, you may be helped into a semi­reclining position. If you’re in any danger of tearing, you may need to have an episiotomy when your baby’s head is crowning. If forceps have to be used, an episiotomy is more likely. Your baby will be delivered onto your abdomen, and while you take your first look at each other, you’ll be given an injection of Syntometrine into your thigh. This is to make sure that your uterus will contract firmly, reducing the chance of severe bleeding after the delivery of the placenta. Your baby will then be given the Apgar tests while you are cleaned up. If you need to have stitches, these are usually done at this point, either by the midwife or the doctor.</p>
<p><strong>THE ADVANTAGES</strong></p>
<p>For some mothers, a hospital birth gives the best chance of a successful and happy outcome. Having your baby in the hospital is the safest option if you suffer from a medical condition such as heart disease or diabetes, if you’re expecting twins, if your baby is known to be breech, or if, as a first-time mother, your obstetrical history just presents too many unknown factors.</p>
<p>Should anything go wrong during the labor and birth, emergency medical assistance is on hand right away, and there’s a wide range of pain-relief medication readily available should you want it. You may feel happier knowing that your baby can be given treatment in an intensive care unit if the need arises.</p>
<p>By staying in the hospital after the birth, you may get more rest than you would at home, especially if you have other children.</p>
<p><strong>THE DISADVANTAGES</strong></p>
<p>Once you’re in the hospital, it’s easy to feel overpowered by the atmosphere, although some are getting more relaxed about childbirth. Bear in mind that hospital staff have to follow rules and routines, and you’re going to have to fit in with them. But that doesn’t mean that you should have to do anything you aren’t happy about. Your partner may feel a bit awkward and separate from the birth of his child, so try to include him in whatever way you can. It helps to find out as much as you can about the hospital procedures and setup beforehand so that you’re more prepared once you go into labor.</p>
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		<title>Up to 40 weeks</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Jun 2008 05:40:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It can be hard to calculate the exact date of conception, although most women have their fertile time about 14 days after the first day of their menstrual period. Because of this, doctors use an artificial but convenient time scale of 40 weeks, calculated from the date of your last menstrual period. A baby actually [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It can be hard to calculate the exact date of conception, although most women have their fertile time about 14 days after the first day of their menstrual period. Because of this, doctors use an artificial but convenient time scale of 40 weeks, calculated from the date of your last menstrual period. A baby actually reaches “full term,” meaning it’s fully developed, after about 38 weeks.</p>
<p><strong>Your Baby’ s Progress</strong></p>
<p>During this month your baby will usually shed most of the lanugo (fine hair) from his body. There may be some small patches left in odd places and perhaps some in his body creases. His skin is smooth and soft, and there is still some vernix caseosa left on it (mostly on his back), which will help his passage down canal. He’ll be almost chubby before birth. His fingernails are long and may have scratched his face-they’ll need after birth. His eyes are blue, although they may change in the weeks after birth. When he’s awake, his eyes are open. In these last weeks, your baby produces increasing amounts of a hormone called cortisone from his adrenal glands. This helps his lungs to mature and prepare for his first breath.</p>
<p>Meconium Your baby’s intestines are filled with a dark green, almost black, substance called meconium. This is a mixture of the secretions from his alimentary glands together with the lanugo that’s been shed from his body, pigment, and cells from the wall of his bowel. It’ll be the first bowel motion he’ll pass after birth, but he may pass it during delivery.</p>
<p>Immune system His own system is still immature, so to make up for this he receives antibodies from you via the placenta. These protect him against anything that you have antibodies for, such as flu, mumps, and German measles. After he’s born, he’ll keep getting antibodies from you via your breast milk.</p>
<p><strong>His Support System</strong></p>
<p>The placenta now measures 8-10 inches (20-25 cm) in diameter and is just over an inch (3 cm) thick, thus creating a wide area for the exchange of nourishment and waste products between your system and your baby’s. There’s now more than a quart (liter) of water in the amniotic sac.</p>
<p>The hormones made by the placenta are stimulating your breasts to swell and fill with milk. This also causes swelling in your baby’s breasts, whether it is a boy or a girl. This will go down after birth. If your baby is a girl, the stopping of these same hormones following delivery may cause her to have a light bleeding from her vagina (like a period) a few days after her birth.</p>
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		<title>Up to 34 weeks</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 May 2008 05:45:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thirty-four weeks after your last period, your baby is perfectly formed. All her proportions are exactly as you’d expect them to be at birth. She still has some maturing to do, though, and some more weight to gain before she’s ready to be born. Your Baby’s Progress Her organs are now almost fully mature, except [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thirty-four weeks after your last period, your baby is perfectly formed. All her proportions are exactly as you’d expect them to be at birth. She still has some maturing to do, though, and some more weight to gain before she’s ready to be born.</p>
<p><strong>Your Baby’s Progress</strong></p>
<p>Her organs are now almost fully mature, except for her lungs. These aren’t yet completely developed, although they’re making increasing quantities of surfactant, the fluid that will stop them from collapsing once she begins to breathe air. She makes strong movements that can be felt on the surface of your abdomen. Almost all babies born at this time survive.</p>
<p>Her skin, nails, and hair Her skin is now pink rather than red, because of the deposits of white fat underneath it. Fat deposits , build up under her skin to provide energy and regulate her body temperature after she’s born. The protective vernix caseosa that covers her skin is now very thick. Her fingernails now reach the ends of her fingers but her toenails are not yet fully grown. She  may have quite a lot of hair on her head.</p>
<p>Her eyes Her irises can now dilate and contract. They’ll contract response to bright light, and also to allow her to focus, although she won’t need to develop this skill until after she’s born. She can close her eyelids, and she has begun to blink.</p>
<p>Her position Some babies take up the head-downward position about now, but there’s still plenty of time-most don’t engage until after 36 weeks. She may remain in the breech (bottom­down) position until birth, although most babies do turn on their own.</p>
<p>Her Support System</p>
<p>From this month the placenta layers may start to thin. To make estrogen, the placenta converts a testosterone-like hormone that’s made by your baby’s adrenal glands. By this month these glands are as big as those of an adolescent, and every day they produce 10 times as much hormone as an adult’s adrenal glands. They’ll shrink rapidly after birth.</p>
<p>The amniotic sac, or bag of waters, contains a large amount of fluid, most of which is the baby’s urine-she can produce as much as a pint (half a liter) of urine every day. Excess vernix caseosa, nutrients, and products necessary for the maturing of the her lungs are also in the amniotic sac. The umbilical cord is large, strong, and tough. A firm, gelatinous substance surrounds the blood vessels and prevents kinks or knots in the cord that could affect your baby’s blood supply.</p>
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